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		<title>By: Don&#8217;t Pity The (Other) Woman &#124; Ain&#39;t Yo Mama&#39;s Blog</title>
		<link>http://www.aintyomamasblog.com/mental-monday-how-do-you-define-forsaking-all-others/#comment-956</link>
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		<description>[...] the case, potential consequences are rarely considered or simply ignored. There are various reasons why married people cheat, but it&#8217;s not usually because they are looking for love or another long-term commitment. If [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Newlywed &#38; Unemployed</title>
		<link>http://www.aintyomamasblog.com/mental-monday-how-do-you-define-forsaking-all-others/#comment-598</link>
		<dc:creator>Newlywed &#38; Unemployed</dc:creator>
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		<description>I think, as with most things in life, intent is the key ingredient. 

I read several articles this year that focused on the idea that people cheat not because of purely sexual urges, but because they felt emotionally rejected in their relationships. Such a sad reason. And I don&#8217;t mean &#8220;weak excuse&#8221; I mean, what an unhappy situation, to feel that unwanted by someone who has promised themselves to you (for whatever duration).

While my husband and I have no set definition on how we&#8217;d recognize cheating if we saw it, we have agreed that communication is the key and I pray we can remember that in the long run. &#8220;Straight up, tell me if you want out.&#8221; I bowed out of my first marriage as gracefully as possible when that husband told me there was someone else. I truly only wanted him to be happy and if she was better suited, then who was I to argue? (Married 8 years, no children..) Just don&#8217;t humiliate me. At least give me the respect of some honesty.

Stopping by from SITS!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think, as with most things in life, intent is the key ingredient. </p>
<p>I read several articles this year that focused on the idea that people cheat not because of purely sexual urges, but because they felt emotionally rejected in their relationships. Such a sad reason. And I don&#8217;t mean &#8220;weak excuse&#8221; I mean, what an unhappy situation, to feel that unwanted by someone who has promised themselves to you (for whatever duration).</p>
<p>While my husband and I have no set definition on how we&#8217;d recognize cheating if we saw it, we have agreed that communication is the key and I pray we can remember that in the long run. &#8220;Straight up, tell me if you want out.&#8221; I bowed out of my first marriage as gracefully as possible when that husband told me there was someone else. I truly only wanted him to be happy and if she was better suited, then who was I to argue? (Married 8 years, no children..) Just don&#8217;t humiliate me. At least give me the respect of some honesty.</p>
<p>Stopping by from SITS!</p>
<p><span class="cluv">Newlywed &amp; Unemployed recently posted..<a class="5e89285b1e 598" rel="nofollow" href="http://newlywedandunemployed.blogspot.com/2009/12/isolation-and-unemployment.html">Isolation and Unemployment</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip u 598" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.aintyomamasblog.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Master Degree in Psychology &#187; Mental Monday: How Do You Define “Forsaking All Others?” &#124; Ain&#39;t &#8230;</title>
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		<dc:creator>Master Degree in Psychology &#187; Mental Monday: How Do You Define “Forsaking All Others?” &#124; Ain&#39;t &#8230;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:34:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Holly @ Posy Pocket</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly @ Posy Pocket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>great thoughts!  Merry Sitsmas!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>great thoughts!  Merry Sitsmas!</p>
<p><span class="cluv">Holly @ Posy Pocket recently posted..<a class="c67314d7a2 527" rel="nofollow" href="http://posypocket.blogspot.com/2009/12/favorite-pier-one-pillows.html">Favorite Pier 1 Pillows~</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip u 527" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.aintyomamasblog.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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